Don’t Ever Let These 5 Kinds of People In Your Life – Inspirational Speech
Take ownership of your negative beliefs, remove them, and enjoy a higher quality life.
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Transcript – Don’t Ever Let These 5 Kinds of People In Your Life (Inspiring Speech)
Show me your friends and I’ll soon tell you who you are, and what kind of life you will live..
Those you CHOOSE to surround yourself with, will play a huge part in the quality of your life, or lack of quality in your life.
If you hang around with only angry and negative people… your life will be full of anger and negativity.
If you surround yourself with kind, compassionate and positive people, your life will have more kindness, and positive energy. Who you surround yourself with is crucial, and sometimes it is important you reflect on those you are spending the most time with and asking yourself, do I really want these people in my life?
If you have any of these people in your life, it might be time to rethink how much time you spend with them, if any at all.
It might not be easy to limit or end all interaction with these people, if they are friends, or family… but if they are not making your life, or theirs better by you spending time together, maybe it’s time for both of you to move on.
Number 1: Dishonest People
Number 2: Controlling People
Number 3: Angry, Bitter and Negative People (Victim Mentality)
Number 4: Takers (Never Givers)
and Number 5: Those Who Have No Desire To Grow
Let’s talk a little more about each personality so you can spot them, and if needed, limit your time, or end your time with them.
Number 1: Dishonest People
TRUST is a major human need for any strong relationship. Friendships, romantic relationships, family members – if you can’t trust them, limit your time with them.
If they lie repeatedly or rarely give you the full story – this is a clear sign they don’t respect you.
Address the problem with the person, if you can, and if the situation doesn’t change move on and move forward.
Don’t respond with hate, or revenge in mind, just move on, take the high road, and let them play out their dishonesty elsewhere.
Remember, if something feels off, it is most likely off.
Number 2: Controlling People
Freedom is a basic human need we all share, and when we feel like another human need is controlling us, or trying to, it is very uncomfortable and unnatural.
When you limit, or end time with these kind of people, it will feel like a weight has been lifted of your back. That heavy burden you carry around being under someone else’s command is life-draining.
Follow your heart, you know those who are right for you.
Number 3: Angry, Bitter and Negative People
It goes without saying that your life will be better without angry, bitter and negative people in it, but you must be able to spot these people, sometimes their behaviour is more subtle than you might think.
Constantly judging others, always blaming and living in the victim role, regularly getting into arguments with others… complaining, always finding the negative aspects of any situation… these kind of behaviours are not good for you, if you want to live a true happy, fulfilled life.
Find those who see the positive in each situation, who respond with compassion, who can calm and light up any room. Your life will be much better for it.
Number 4: Takers (Never Givers)
It’s pretty self explanatory, but it’s those who always EXPECT things to be given to them, to be done FOR them, but who rarely ever offer the same level of giving in return.
It’s the person who calls you when they need you, but doesn’t answer when you need them. The one who will spend time with you when it suits them, but not when it doesn’t.
It’s almost like they feel superior, or above you. Well, they are not. We are all equal, and if you find yourself in constant interaction with a taker – end that relationship and notice how good it feels.
and Number 5: Those Who Have No Desire To Grow
If you are someone who is on a constant, never ending search for GROWTH and self development… spending time with those who aren’t can be very draining.
You may not need to end your time with these people, they may be family, or life long friends…but to expect your greatest life, when you surround yourself with people who have zero intention of getting better, EVER – that’s insanity.
At the end of the day YOU CHOOSE who you spend time with, and you choose who you spend the most time with.
You don’t have to be rude, or abrupt or disrespectful when limiting or ending time you spend with people – you don’t even have to explain WHY. Just do what feels right for you, because that, is usually what is right for everyone involved.
