If Someone Broke Your Heart – WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

Breakups can blindside us, and leave us questioning our own judgment and ability to attract the kind of love that lasts. To go from being in love one moment, to being left out in the cold the next can bring up a lot of tough feelings. Many people begin to wonder if they are somehow ‘not enough’, or if love is just some made up idea that doesn’t actually exist.

When someone doesn’t love you like you love them, it doesn’t mean you aren’t worth loving or that love isn’t real. Take a look at why it actually means that the exact opposite is true.

Love Takes Courage | After A Breakup

Truly loving someone means having the courage to be vulnerable. It’s means taking a risk so that you can reap the reward of lasting love. Love asks you to be fearless, and to give of yourself with no guarantees of a return on investment. That’s why truly loving another person is an act of bravery, and it indicates that you are walking the warrior’s path.

Some People Speak the Language of Limitations, Not Love | After A Breakup

The warrior’s path is a road that not everyone is yet willing or able to take. When people are still filled with their own hurt, are misguided, or are drawn to a selfish way of living, they are not going to have the capacity to love without limits. That’s because all pain, false judgment, and selfishness operate on the level of fear. Fear tells people all the reasons why they CAN’T have something. Anyone who is tuned into fear as their guiding force will therefore believe that they can’t really have true love.

That’s why people with ‘fear blocks’ may have a strong desire to love you on a conscious level, but subconsciously they are contending with their own inner limiting beliefs. So you end up getting mixed signals from them that can leave you feeling confused and heartbroken. Until they are willing to work on releasing their blocks to love, they are not going to be able to love you like you deserve to be loved.

Know That You ARE Worth Loving | After A Breakup

Knowing that you’re worth loving isn’t just a statement; it is also a practice. This practice entails taking the time to include gentle and affirming self-care into your daily routine. Breakups shake your self-esteem and leave you questioning your worth. That’s why adding an extra dose of self-love is so needed at this time – so that you can remind yourself to hold onto your true joy by focusing on what makes you uniquely beautiful and divine.

This Inspiring Video Will Help You See How Your Life Is A Masterpiece That WILL Come Together Beautifully – Piece By Revealing Piece.

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“When we are no longer able to change a situation we are challenged to change ourselves.”  – Victor Frankel, Auschwitz Holocaust survivor, from ‘Man’s Search for Meaning.’

In her 2011 bestseller ‘Top 5 Regrets of the Dying’ nurse Bronnie Ware shares the results of her study of the palliative care patients she had the honor to treat. They encouraged her to tell their story in order to help others thrive. Her social research reveals that when people come to understand they are about to pass on, it gives them pause for reflection.

Here is what she learned.

People Who Are Going to Die No Longer Worry About Other’s Judgements of Their Dreams

One of the main regrets mentioned by people in Bronnie’s study was that they wished they hadn’t taken other people’s opinions of their life so seriously. As they neared the end of their days, they begin to realize that they should have concentrated more on their unique inner dreams and less on the influences of outsiders. This is because they came to see clearly that they alone have to face the consequences of their life choices, so they alone should decide what those choices are.

The Top Five Regrets of the Dying – Bronnie Ware

People Who Are Going to Die Are Not Worried About Bills

People who are dying get to experience firsthand the phrase ‘you can’t take it with you when you go’. This allows them to have a deeper understanding of the fact that their true worth lies in the experiences they’ve created for themselves and their loved ones, and not in a paycheck or material items. In fact, working less by simplifying in order to experience more was among the top 5 wishes of Bronnie’s patients.

People Who Are Going to Die Don’t Care About Catching Up on Their Favorite TV Show

Many of us have gotten sucked into a ‘must see’ program, only to realize on Monday that it’s a new week and we are still stuck in the same old worn-out cycle, with no changes in sight. According to the nurse’s study, many people who were about to die had parts of their life they wished they could change.

Watching more TV made no one’s list.

People Who Are Going to Die Wish They’d Created More Happiness With Family and Friends

Expressing their deep-seated feelings to others and making time for their best friendships did top the wish list of those whom Bronnie spoke with. In fact, some people in her care were actually able to track down old friends and finally open up about their emotions. Experiencing and giving positive vibes to others is a central theme of those who are dying.

People Who Are Going to Die Wish They’d Spent More Time Being Happy Themselves

Holding their tongue less in favor of being their true, authentic selves more was a choice that many who are dying wish they had made earlier. Quite often their situation is the catalyst for them to understand, for the first time in their lives, that happiness is a choice and is not dependent on outside circumstances.

One Day It Will Be Over – LIVE NOW – Motivational Speech

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Your Pain Is Part Of Your Puzzle – Inspiring Speech To Help You Move On

Your pain is a gift, sent to make you stronger.

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Speaker: Raymond Shinault
Film by: Adele Brodskaja
Cast: Mathilde Lebouc, Tara Lee Parvus, Tim Berlioz, Thomas d’Aboy

Transcript – Your Pain Is Part Of Your Puzzle – Inspiring Speech To Help You Move On

Whatever pain you’ve been through. Whatever pain you’re going through… know that it wasn’t sent to make you weaker… know that it was sent to make you stronger.

Trust that it wasn’t sent to beat you down… but to raise you up.

Trust that it wasn’t sent to break you, but to make you.

Think of your life like a giant puzzle.

In order to complete the puzzle. The masterpiece that is your life… every piece is just as important as the other.

You have different shapes, different colours… on their own they seem random and incomplete… but together they make sense.

Once all the pieces come together you can see the bigger picture…

You have to be able to see the bigger picture in your life… or at least have faith your puzzle will come together in time.

But your puzzle won’t come together unless you have your eyes open…

If you quit and walk away… your puzzle will never come together.

If you give up at the first sign of struggle you might not get to see the bigger picture of your life.

Your masterpiece will come together… piece by piece if you keep going.

Your pain is a part of the puzzle that is your life.

You might think you could do without those pieces… but without them you’re not whole… youre missing something…

Every single part of a puzzle is as important as the next piece… and likewise every single event of your life made you who you are today.

Without pain and struggle you wouldn’t have strength and character.

Without negative people you might not appreciate the positive people in your life.

Without that rejection or break up you might not have been guided to something better.

Without that person saying you couldn’t do it, you might not have had the motivation to do it.

Without sadness and depression you might lack the compassion and caring you have today.

Without experiencing what YOU DO NOT WANT… you may not be so clear as to what you do want.

Without painful endings you may not have been led to that great new beginning.

There is a reason and a purpose in everything, and a true blessing in everything if you can open your eyes to see it and open your heart to know it.

Don’t ask why me. Don’t say I didn’t deserve this…

Ask How can I use this? How can this make me stronger, better, wiser?

Use the pain in your life as fuel to take you wherever you need to go.

Use the mess in your life as a blessing to take you some place better.

Have faith and trust that some endings are sent for new beginnings.

It might not feel great at the time, but keep your head up and be open to the fact that you deserve better and if you keep believing you’ll get better.

Be open to the fact that you can’t see the rest of the puzzle just yet… but just trust it will be a masterpiece…

If you keep believing, have faith, keep growing and working on yourself… everything will come together perfectly… at the right time.

All of us experience pain and hard times… only some of us USE that pain to grow. Don’t just go through it. Grow through it.

It will make you better if you can find the courage inside you to keep going.

Come out the other side of your pain stronger, better and wiser.

Your greatest life can not be lived without the strength that comes from your struggles.

Your best life cannot be lived without great challenges. Trust this is a part of life.

Find the purpose in the pain. Be one of the few who see the message in the mess.

Be one of the few who gain the strength through the struggle. Who see the blessing in the lessons.

The Rock once said:

“I like to use the hard times in the past to motivate me today”

Use the hard times of your past to motivate you, not as an excuse, but as your purpose.

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