Stay Away From Negative People – They Have A Problem For Every Solution

Don’t let them suck your energy.

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Speaker: Tyrone Stokes, Timothy R. Wallace, Jessica Gilbuena

Transcript – Stay Away From Negative People – They Have A Problem For Every Solution – (Motivational Speech)

There’s a saying:

Stay away from negative people, they have a problem for every solution.



This is not true for ALL situations, just like everything in life, you will need to apply some common sense… 

But what the quote points to, is that you should always limit your time with people that continually drain your energy and add no value to your life.

Negative people are usually very committed… to being negative!

… and the more you push them to be anything else, the more they will push back.



This doesn’t mean you show no compassion towards others.

 LIVE WITH COMPASSION. 

LIVE WITH EMPATHY. 

Put yourself in others shoes… sure, do all that as a standard practice of being a decent human being… but keep your life free from the drama and negativity that is not WHO YOU ARE.

If your attempts to lift someone out of negativity are unsuccessful, you have to move on. They will get to a better place when they’re ready to get to a better place and no one will get there if they’re not ready, whether they are pushed or not.

There are no accidents. Everyone comes into your life for a reason, a lesson or a blessing

Will Smith once said:

Don’t chase people. Be Yourself. Do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life will come to you and stay.

I can’t give any better advice than that.

The people in your life should be reducing your stress, not causing more of it.

If you consider yourself to be a positive person and want to live your best life, surround yourself with positive people. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good about being yourself. Surround yourself with people that see the good in the world. By doing so, you will see more good too. You will attract more good.

Don’t let them drain your energy.

Energy doesn’t discriminate. 

Just like weight lifting… If you focus on getting one body part stronger, and you put all your energy, focus and effort on that muscle group, working on it every day, that muscle will get stronger…



If you put all your energy into negative people… your life will be negative. 

If your attention is on WHAT IS WRONG with your life… If your attention and energy is on the negative people and the negativity they bring, that will invade your life.

Keep your focus on what is GOOD and you will see more good. More good will GROW just like a muscle.

The same is true on the opposite side. They say, if you lie down with dogs, you’ll get up with fleas. If you lie down with negativity, you will be consumed with negativity. You are what you eat and you are who you spend your time with by choice. What you consume will consume you.

Your friends and peer group are a great reflection of you because you chose them. Choose wisely.

Say THANK YOU to all the toxic people in your life!

 Why say thank you?

If they didn’t appreciate you, they taught you how you MUST NOT to be treated, and they taught you how NOT to treat others. 

If they let you go, they showed you how to move on. They showed you that you are more than a relationship. You, at the deepest level are not YOU plus someone else. You are you. Your soul is not owned or attached to another.

If they made you feel unworthy… if they took the life out of you for a moment… they showed you that NO ONE can EVER take all the life from you long term.

 They gave you strength and character. They expanded your heart.

If they were racist – they gave you more compassion towards all races and showed you a clear example of how not to treat people who simply look different than you.

If they were unkind – through their example of what comes to unkind people and the lack of love they had in their life, they showed you what not to do, and gave you two great gifts: Kindness and Compassion.

Whatever they did to you… don’t let it stop you from being you. From loving and living fully.

Don’t let one person or two or three, stop you from becoming your greatest self.

You’re more than one event. You’re more than one person.

Use whatever happened to your advantage.

Don’t let them win by holding on. Let their toxic energy stay with them, and release it from your life.

Say thank you.

Thank you for the lessons.

Thank you for the blessings.

And thank you for the strength to move on, to let them go… For good.

I am grateful for all those difficult people. They have shown me exactly who I do not want to be.

I am grateful for every single person who has come into my life, every person who has shaped my life, those who came to teach lessons and those who are real blessing, they were all as important as each other, as they all shaped who I am today. Now I am wise enough to decide who will stay and who I must distanced myself from who adds value and who takes it away.

And lastly, ask yourself honestly what kind of person you are to those around you. Are you lifting them up or draining their energy? Are you adding value to their life or making it worse?

Remember, you cannot have a positive life with a negative mindset.

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Self talk… we all do it. Whether it’s positive or negative, there is always a little voice in our minds sharing its opinion. What effect does the voice have over our lives? The answer is that the tiny voice affects our lives in a big way. If we are saying affirmations and mantras that are positive and self-esteem boosting, then we make choices that are positive. But when the voice goes into negative territory, it can cause great damage to our lives. Here are some reasons why it is important to keep your negative self talk in check.

5 Things That Happen When You Don’t Stop Negative Self Talk

1. It Makes Manifestation Almost Impossible

Negative self talk puts us in a low state of consciousness which makes it super hard to manifest anything we desire. What are we telling the universe when we say things like, ‘I’m not good enough’ or, ‘I’m a failure’? We are saying to the universe that we are not ready for the abundance and joy that it is ready to provide for us. We are telling the universe to hold off on the rewards and wait until we are in a higher energy state.

2. It’s a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

On the flip side of not being able to manifest what you want, negative self talk makes things go wrong in your life. If you’re constantly telling yourself that you’re a failure, that you’re out of shape, that you’re not smart, then you will actually start to develop those characteristics. The more you tell yourself negative things, the more your become those things and vice versa. This creates an intense spiral of negativity. To overcome this downhill pattern, we must utilize positive self talk whenever we can.

3. It Negates All of Our Mantras + Affirmations

So, you say your mantras every morning and before you go to sleep. Sometimes, you remember them throughout the day. On a great day, you are living your mantras and keeping a positive mindset. But when negative self talk creeps in, it can damage all the work you have done on creating a high vibration for yourself. This is especially true if your negative beliefs about yourself are deep-rooted.

4. Negative Thoughts Train Your Mind

Just like positive affirmations, negative self talk will lead into even more negative self talk. If you keep telling yourself that you are not good enough, you are prone to think that again and again. Take control of the situation by practicing affirmations in the morning. Remember to repeat them when you are under stress.

5. They Don’t Just Affect Us

If you’re speaking negatively to yourself, it might seem like it’s all in your head. And it is… sort of. Nobody can hear what you’re thinking, but they will experience the negativity with your actions. When you think in a negative way, your behavior will reflect that and everyone around you will feel the bad vibes.

How to Overcome Your Negative Thoughts

When we think negative things about ourselves, it’s easy to keep thinking them. One thought could turn into many and your life can quickly spiral out of control if you’re not careful, and present.

If you are continually practicing negative self talk, there are many things you can do to pull yourself out of it, affirmations, self-development exercises, meditation and educating yourself on all things to do with human behaviour.

Affirmations will work for you, if you focus on FEELING what it would feel like, rather than just speaking the words. For example, if you tell yourself that you’re ugly, you could negate the statement by saying, ‘I am beautiful, inside and out.” – Add to that the feeling: What does it feel like to be a beautiful person? To have others recognise you as a beautiful, kind person.

This will stop the chain of negativity in its tracks. You also won’t have the negative energy to deal with, because you have turned your negative thought into a positive one.

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