Unconditional Love (Official Lyric Video) Fearless Soul

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Performed by Rachael Schroeder for Fearless Soul | Music Composed by Patrick Rundblad

LYRICS – Unconditional Love (Official Lyric Video) Fearless Soul

I thought I knew what love was
Really I knew nothing
Thought my heart was already open
then I felt this one thing

That I was looking for, nothing can compare


Remind me
 What’s it called?
Unconditional love.

You taught me how to live
It’s called unconditional love, you taught me how to love
Unconditional love, you taught me how to live
It’s called unconditional love, you taught me how to love
It can never be replaced or lost
It’s forever in our hearts
Nothing can compare to your unconditional love

You’re always on my side
Even in the darkest times
Always something to smile about, this joy lights up all my days
Now my heart is an open door, always sharing love

Remind me
What’s it called?
Unconditional love, you taught me how to live
It’s called unconditional love, you taught me how to love
Unconditional love, you taught me how to live
It’s called unconditional love, you taught me how to love
It can never be replaced or lost
It’s forever in our hearts
Nothing can compare to your unconditional love

You hug me like it’s the last time
but it feels like the first time
Can’t believe this is mine
It’s like you’re telling me to let go
of anything that’s not right now
When you hold me close

Unconditional love
It’s called unconditional love
Unconditional love
It’s called unconditional love
Unconditional love, you taught me how to live
It’s called unconditional love, you taught me how to love
Unconditional love, you taught me how to live
It’s called unconditional love, you taught me how to love

It can never be replaced or lost
It’s forever in our hearts
Nothing can compare to your unconditional love

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Only Love – Jordan Smith (Cover by Fearless Soul and Rachael Schroeder)

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LYRICS – ONLY LOVE (Jordan Smith) Cover By Fearless Soul – Lyric Video

How much more are we gonna take?
How many nights do we have to lie awake?
How many tears are we gonna cry?

We can wish until the well runs dry
but what happens when the sky above
runs out of every single shooting star?
and what if every good intention’s only meant
to go so far?

only love, only love can save us now
keep the world from burning down, down, down
to the ground, ground, ground

Only love can look inside a human heart
and see us for who we are
and who we are would be enough

If only there was only love
only love, only love
only love

How many lessons have we really learned?
How many bridges could we cross instead of burn?
Why do we find it hard to forgive?
We’re so blinded that it’s easy to forget

only love, only love can save us now
keep the world from burning down, down, down
to the ground, ground, ground

Only love can look inside a human heart
and see us for who we are
and who we are would be enough

If only there was only love
only love, only love
only love, only love
only love, only love

So what happens when the sky above
runs out of every single shooting star?
and what if every good intention’s only meant
to go so far?

Only love, only love can save us now
keep the world from burning down, down, down
to the ground, ground, ground

only love can look inside a human heart
and see us for who we are
and who we are would be enough
If only there was only love

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What It Feels Like To Be In Love – Peter Crone on Unconditional Love

Speaker: Peter Crone

Transcript – What It Feels Like To Be In Love – Peter Crone

When you really discover what it means to fully accept who you are all aspects then that I would assert is the discovery of what love is.

It’s really that simple, like, you know, it’s very easy as a spiritual teachers and esoteric philosophers and poets to talk about love as though that is our nature, and I’m not denying that, but it’s one thing to know that, okay, I am love. It’s another thing to experience I AM love.

And the way I’ve often used for myself as an expression, I say, I AM IN-LOVE and people often will say, wow, that’s awesome. Congratulations. And I’m like, no, no, no, no… I am IN THE ENERGY… I am in the essence, I am bathing within the quality that is love itself.

Yes, of course. I love companionship. I love falling in love with other… that’s a fun experience, but to recognize that I am actually held by the essence of love itself, that is, I would say not only a rare experience, it’s an anomaly to the norm, but I would assert it’s actually what we’re all here for… is to awaken to the fact that I am held by the container of the essence of love itself. And until such that I get that I will invariably be seeking it through the adoration or the validation or the reassurance of other, for which reason I will constantly be dependent on what they do or say to the point that everything is now a perceived threat. And for that reason, I will be perpetually in a state of exhaustion, which is really a futile battle for me to overcome the fact that I believe that there’s fundamentally something wrong with me. That’s not lovable.

And there in lies, the biggest pretense of all that, I somehow believe that there is something wrong with me. And I’m looking to the outside world to compensate for that or to reassure me otherwise, which is again, it’s a futile plight because if that’s how I’ve defined myself, then it doesn’t matter how many millions of people might love me until such time that I really get that for myself. It’s all window dressing.

You know, when people are like always trying to lean into like positive vibes or good feelings,

they’re denying 50% of what it means to be human, which is that just by virtue of being a sentient being, you’re going to have a myriad of different feelings.

Some of which you might think are great or the negative, but to what degree can you be big enough as a human being, to hold the space, the container of love, just like a really adoring mother does for her child, which she allows all of it to be that, of course you may have preference, but there’s no judgment of a child that’s just experiencing and self expressing whatever is going on. That is the container of love that I want to inspire, that I do inspire for people to bring to themselves, such that they can make space for their humanity, warts and all.

It’s not always going to be pretty, but that’s the nature of love. The very nature of love is such that it actually makes space for that, which isn’t necessarily lovable.

It’s easy to love all the parts of you that you love. It’s easy to love the parts of you that you like or that you think are your greatest features or your greatest character traits, but where can you develop love for the part of you that you find to be imperfect to the part of you that finds to be flawed? That’s the very essence of what loves means.

To make sufficient space for all parts of me, even those that my persona, my ego are somehow belittling, berating, or judging. That is the antithesis of love.

And so that is why it’s almost beautifully designed by virtue of being human… We are flawed, we are imperfect. And if it weren’t for that, we wouldn’t understand what it means to develop true. Unconditional love.

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What is love?

An emotion, a perception, a belief?

One things for sure, it must be felt with your own heart to be truly understood.

Love may be the most powerful force on Earth, it’s responsible for some of the greatest literature in human history. It has toppled kingdoms, inspired genius and altered our biology and psychology.

Love is as beautiful as it is complex, so let us simplify things with these 25 psychological facts on love and relationships.

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25 Amazing Psychological Facts on Love

Attachment Love

‘Romantic’ love only last around a year, after that ‘attachment’ love sets in.

Source.

Copying Behavior

Copying the way someone behaves or speaks is a sign that they’re attracted to you.

Uncertain Attraction

According to research, women are more likely to be attracted to a man
when she is uncertain about his level of interest in her.

Source.

Big Eyes

Your pupil expands up to 45% percent when you look at someone you love.

Hug Chemistry

Hugs that last over 20 seconds, release the chemical ‘Oxytocin’ which makes you trust that person more.

Beat As One

When lovers look into each others eyes, their heart beats synchronize.

Source.

Power of Pose

When a man finds a woman attractive he may flex his muscles and adapt postures
that make him appeal taller and stronger.

Holding Hands

Holding hands with someone you love can alleviate physical pain, stress and fear.

Vena Amoris

Engagement rings are generally worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because the Ancient Greeks believed that the vena amores or ‘vein of love’ ran from that finger directly to the heart.

Source.

Grateful Love

Expressing gratitude towards people you love can make you happier and increase your overall level of trust in each other.

Source.

Tear Biology

Women’s tears have been biologically proven to reduce arousal and lower testosterone levels in men.

Source.

Sleep Deprived

Men suffering from sleep deprivation are more likely to assume that a woman wants to have sex with them.

Source.

Sixty Seconds

We decide within the first second of meeting someone whether we can trust them or not.

Source.

Broken Heart Syndrome

Research has shown that emotionally intense experiences such as a break up, divorce or the loss of a loved one can contribute to real physical pain in a person’s heart. This is an actual condition know as Broken Heart Syndrome.

Source.

Symmetrical

People find symmetrical faces more attractive as this is an indication of good health.

Source.

When It Ends

Studies have shown that relationships are most likely to end within 3 to 5 months from the day they begin.

Bone Structure

Men are more attracted to women whose bone structure resembles their mothers.

Source.

Vocal Match

Men with deeper voices appear more attractive to women and women with higher pitched voices are more attractive to men.

Source.

Pain Relief

The simple act of looking at a picture of a loved one can help relieve pain.

Source.

Corporate Ladder

People more thoughtful and reliable partners tend to perform better at work, earning more promotions and feeling more satisfied with their careers overall.

Source.

Happy Times

Studies have shown that happier people who are enjoyable to be around are harder to break up with and tend to stay in relationships longer.

Sankrit Origin

The word “love” if from the Sanskrit work “lubhyati, which means “he desires.”

Source.

Cheeky

Women tend to be more attracted to men with prominent cheekbones and a strong jawline as this is linked to high testosterone levels.

Source.

Seeing Red

According to a 2010 cross-cultural study women are more attracted to men wearing red than other colors.

Source.

Kindness Counts

People that are kind are seen as more attractive by the opposite sex.

Source.

Psychological Facts on Love

Hopefully these 25 facts on love helps you understand the complexity and beauty of this intoxicating condition.

Share this if you believe there needs to be more love in the World.

If you have an interesting fact or anecdote about your experience of love, please share it with us.

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Stop Doing These 5 Things If You Want To Find Love (Inspirational Video)

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TRANSCRIPT – Stop Doing These 5 Things If You Want To Find Love (Inspirational Video)

(Intro from Super Soul Sunday with Oprah Winfrey and Gary Zukav and Linda Francis)

“I actually said this to Tom Cruise a long time ago… That movie, Jerry Maguire, “You complete me”… really messed a lot of people up.

There wasn’t a dry eye in the movie theater and all the women went, “Oh, she completes him” when in fact, no one completes you…

Instead of looking for the right person, work to make yourself the right person for you and the right person will then be drawn to you based upon the work that you’ve done for yourself.

That’s what I hear you saying. Everybody who’s looking for somebody, and believe me, there are lots of people who are like looking for Mr. Right or Miss Right, or whatever that is… to complete them.”

No one will love you until you love yourself. No one can complete you until you… yourself are complete.

You must get to the place where you don’t need another, but you can enjoy another without attachment. Where you can GIVE LOVE… without the NEED of receiving it back. LOVE without conditions.

You are not YOU plus the other person. You existed before the other person and you will exist long after… you will always be yourself and knowing that you can give more.

If you do the work on YOU… If YOU become the person you want in your life… It will happen for you… and you’ll be thankful you didn’t give up. Believe that.

When it comes to LOVE and relationships you can think of it like a mirror. If you LOVE yourself… you will find more people have love for you. If you respect yourself… you will find more people have respect for you. If you VALUE yourself… you will find more people value you.

If you are mostly happy, joyful and positive, you will find you attract mostly happy, joyful and positive people and relationships.

So don’t focus on finding someone to complete you… focus on completing YOURSELF first… then, the right people will show up.

Love is the most powerful force on Earth.

Some say that finding a genuine connection today is harder than ever, but that’s no reason to give up trying. That’s no reason to give up believing you deserve it. KNOWING you deserve it.

Real love will find you, when you’re ready for it. REAL LOVE will find you, when you understand that you don’t search for love in others, but you find it in yourself first.

We all deserve to be loved, and the first step on the journey to REAL love is to love yourself first!

Next, you will need to do the work rather than waiting for someone else to come along and “fix” you, and finally, now is the time to let go of the habits that have kept you from getting hurt, but are also holding you back from a true partnership built on love and respect.

So, If you’re asking “Will I Ever Find Love?” You Must stop Doing These 3 Things first:

Number 1! You Have to stop looking for others to love you, and instead love yourself first!

In the search for REAL love, the very first step must be loving oneself first! If you don’t love the special being that you are, how can you expect anyone else to?

If you are looking for a true partner to share your life with, someone who will walk with you and encourage you to live your best life, you have to treat yourself that way first.

When you find yourself frustrated in your search for a loving and respectful partner, take a step back to examine how you honestly feel and treat yourself.

Take a close look at your self-talk, and begin to shut down the negativity that we can often inflict on ourselves.

When you aren’t at peace with who you are and you are constantly waiting for someone to “fix” you, you will likely attract toxic people who are looking for someone to take advantage of.

Don’t fall into this trap! Take the time to do

the difficult self-work that makes you an attractive partner and will help you to attract loving and respectful people into your life.

When you want someone else to do the heavy lifting for you, you will likely be disappointed with the caliber of people who enter your
life. When you know that you are a whole and complete person who is looking for a partner rather than a savior you are opening yourself up to attracting likeminded people who are also seeking someone to walk the journey of life with.

Number 2 – Stop wearing masks and trying to appear perfect. Be yourself.

The most common mistake people make when looking for a real connection is inauthenticity.

True love will never find you if you aren’t ready to reveal your true self. If you want someone to love you despite your faults, you must be ready to do the same for them.

‘False advertising’ has never been higher. Tinder, Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram are all, at times, authenticity killers. People seem more obsessed with appearing “perfect” than ever before.

If you want love, be yourself. Your RAW, true, authentic self, flaws and all.

Learn to love who you are and stop hiding it from the world. One day someone will fall for who you are, not how you wish to be perceived.

If you’re always wearing a mask, covering up your REAL self… how could anyone ever love you for who you are. REAL LOVE can only come to those who are REAL themselves.

Remember: The RIGHT person is always waiting for you to reveal your REAL SELF. All the wrong people will always be available for the masked you.

Most people don’t learn this until much later in life, so start expressing your true character today you never know who’s watching.

Number 3: Stop expecting someone to be something you are not giving back. The Mirror

This is the concept of the mirror.

Most people aren’t actively looking for someone who is negative, pessimistic, lazy or uninspiring.

You set the standard for the type of person you want in your life. If you want a particular type of person, you must mirror that quality.

If you want someone fit and healthy. You must be a mirror of that person.

You want someone who always sees the positive in every situation? – mirror that mindset with your own outlook.

If you want someone with drive and ambition, ask yourself if you possess those characteristics.

Like attracts like, mirror the person you want and that connection will happen much more naturally.

Finding genuine happiness within yourself, is one of the most important steps to making a genuine connection with someone.

Number 4: Stop Hiding – Be Brave

Nothing will come to you in this life if you are hiding from it. Nothing will come if you are running scared.

If you want something, you’re going to have to be brave and put yourself out there!

If you don’t put yourself out there no one will be able to find you.

Sure, this won’t work for you EVERY time… but it will NEVER work if you never put yourself out there.

Become someone capable of loving and being loved.
Self Worth – The stories you tell yourself become your reality… So do that work on

your-self. The real deep self-work that creates a better you. Because the BETTER YOU FEEL about you, the better you are going to show up in the world. The better you show up, the better your relationships.

Number 5: Stop Holding on to Comfortable Habits that Are Holding You Back

There are a lot of habits that you know don’t serve you well, but you’ve become comfortable with the perceived protection that they offer.

Habits that you know aren’t helpful in your quest to find true love, but you may be reluctant to give them up.

If you want to find love you have to make sacrifices. If this is your situation, remember that life’s greatest growth comes when you leave your comfort zone.

Don’t let feeling comfortable and safe hold you back from a full and vibrant life that could lead to the love of your life.

Opening yourself up and allowing emotional vulnerability is an essential part of finding true love. Let go of the defence mechanisms and withdrawal strategies that have both kept you from getting hurt and also hold you back from finding love.

Do you recognize yourself in some of these 5 things to stop doing if you want to find love? If you do, it’s time to get down to the hard work that is necessary to get you to a place where you can attract true love! Yes, it may be scary to let go of these behaviors and mindsets that have protected you from emotional hurt, but if you truly want to find love, you really have no choice.

Let your light shine brightly, bravely be yourself and like moths to a flame, you will attract the right people.

Make sure they mirror the characteristics you find important & you will find LOVE… and never forget: No one will love you until you love yourself.

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If you truly want to live your best life – FALL IN LOVE. Fall in love with everything. Your mission, your friends, your family, your opportunities, EVERYTHING.

The Energy Frequency of Love Can Change Your Conscious Mind – Bruce Lipton

Bruce Lipton on LOVE ENERGY – Inspirational Video – Watch FREE On Youtube:

Speaker: Bruce Lipton, Author The Honeymoon Effect
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Transcript – LOVE ENERGY – Bruce Lipton, The Honeymoon Effect

Love opens you to the world, which allows you to bring in the joy, the energy, and the happiness. Fear closes you down. Love enhances energy, fear shuts the energy down.

I’d like to talk to you about what is called the honeymoon effect, but to understand that, first, we just have to simply say that only 5% of your life is coming from the conscious mind, the one with the wishes, and desires, and aspirations, the life that you would love to lead. 95% of our life comes from the subconscious habits that primarily were acquired by observing other people, so 95% of the day, you’re not necessarily moving toward that wish of heaven on earth, and I say, but what happens when we fall in love? The answer is, all of a sudden, in 24 hours, your life can radically change. Your life could be blah, blah, blah, blah every day of your life until one day a change occurs.

In this case, I’ll use you meet someone that you fall in love with, and I say, what is the consequence of falling in love? Well, in a regular day, 5% of our life is created by the conscious mind, and thinking sends the conscious mind back into the inside of the head, which then makes the subconscious mind the driver of our life 95% of the day with its negative behaviors, but when you fall in love, guess what? You stop thinking. You stay mindful.

What does that mean? That means, look, you’ve been looking for this person your whole life and now they’re in front of you. Why would you be thinking? You would be present, and taking it in, and then living the moment that you can. Well, guess what? If you stopped thinking, then the conscious mind is not working just 5% of the day. It’s working over 90% of the day, and all of a sudden, you say, “Well, now I’m creating my life from wishes and desires, not from the limiting programs in the subconscious mind,” so falling in love is an opportunity to get out of the program.

Well, first of all, let me just emphasize this. Falling in love is not just romance love. Falling in love is something that just takes your heart and opens it up. You can be a gardener and put your hands in the dirt, and that makes you feel so good and so healthy. That’s a form of love. You can be a cook in a kitchen creating wonderful recipes, and in that process, enjoying it so much that you stay present while you’re cooking. Guess what? You’re not reverting to your subconscious programs.

The honeymoon effect does not necessarily mean just romance with a person. It could be happiness with your pet. It could be the gardening or the cooking artwork. Anything that you do that enhances your being here now, rather than going back and operating from subconscious beliefs, the relevance of the honeymoon effect is love. Again, whether it’s love for an individual or something that you’re working on, why is that so vital for us?

The answer is profoundly important because love represents harmony between you and the environment in which you’re living, and then harmony enhances your vitality because the energy of that is feeding you to be healthier and happier, and contrast to an experience of love, the opposite would be fear, or I’ll say, what’s the relevant difference between that? The answer is love enhances your vitality and your energy. Fear closes you down. When you’re in protection, you wall yourself off from the world around you. That’s what protection is all about.

Love opens you to the world, which allows you to bring in the joy, the energy, and the happiness. Fear closes you down while you think you are protecting yourself from any threats from the outside coming in. Love enhances energy, fear shuts the energy down, and therefore, love enhances vitality because life is energy. Fear compromises vitality because fear is just the opposite. It shuts down your energy.

The honeymoon effect is really a recognition of what? Getting out of the negative programs, operating from wishes and desires, filling your body’s blood with the chemistry that enhances epigenetics, which enhances your health, and makes life the joy that we love, so when you’re in love, life is wonderful and beautiful. When you’re in fear, you’re shutdown and afraid, so the difference is, why love is so important in our world, because life is driven by love. The energy of love, and in contrast, fear will shorten your life. The energy and chemistry of fear is actually the cause of almost all illness on this planet.

Do you need a simpler answer than the fact that love enhances your vitality, your energy, and your health as compared to fear, which shuts down your vitality, your energy, and causes disease? It’s all a matter of feeling, interpretation of the mind, being translated into chemistry that makes a compliment of the body. The body in love, vital. The body in fear, threatened. All of a sudden, you see why we seek love. It’s a built-in mechanism to enhance our life experience on this planet.

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Research shows that love is still the number one reason people get married. Yet, so many marriages end in divorce. Singles looking to tie the knot may be wondering what it takes to have success in a long-term relationship and we’ve got the answers.

For most people, meeting and marrying their perfect partner is a huge goal. But, when trying to find someone to spend the rest of your life with there are many things to consider.

You should get along, respect one another, and have incredible communication skills if you want your marriage to be a success. Not only will the right relationship stand the test of time, but it will make you feel great about yourself too.

Does it take a marriage course or just common sense to form and maintain a healthy relationship? Discover below the 6 keys pivotal to long-term relationship success.

The 6 Keys to Long-Term Relationship Success

1. Sharing Values

Any marriage expert will tell you that in order to develop a healthy relationship with someone, you’re going to need to understand their core values. For example, treating your spouse like your best friend, viewing your marriage as sacred, and agreeing on aims and goals were three key qualities to a happy marriage, according to an Australian study.

Here are some topics you should discuss with your spouse to see whether you have the same values.

Politics

Having the same political opinions and beliefs does not necessarily make for a successful relationship, but it certainly makes things easier. Finding out where your spouse’s leanings are can help you understand how they think.

Spirituality

Do you and your spouse share beliefs spirituality and faith? Research indicates that religious couples are often happier because they share core values and morals.

Business

Your spouse’s job may not seem like something you need to talk about in order to build a successful relationship, but where you work and what you do has a direct impact on your finances, free time, and potentially where you live.

Finances

Talking about money is a must when you start to get serious with your spouse. If you get married or move in together, how will the finances be split? Will you share a bank account? What type of spender/saver are you? These are good answers to have when planning your future together.

Children

Do you want children? If so, what will you do if your spouse is firm in their decision not to start a family? Having different opinions on children can lead to heartache down the road, so it’s best to ask these questions sooner rather than later.

The Future

Where do you both see yourselves in five years? Not everyone will be able to accurately answer this question, but it’s a great way to open up the lines of communication about how you see your futures going and whether your paths align.

2. Trusting Each Other

Another important quality in long-term relationship success is being able to trust your partner.

Trust is essential because it’s what allows you not only to relax but also to be vulnerable with your spouse.

You can cultivate trust by being honest, even when it’s difficult to do so. Another great way to promote trust is by living up to your word and showing your partner you can be dependable.

The physical connection between partners is also important for building trust, as the oxytocin hormone released during physical touch (such as holding hands or kissing) has been shown to increase trust, lower stress, and boost monogamy.

3. Being Your Best Self

Do you have fun with your partner? Couples who laugh together are happier and more likely to stay together. Research shows that sharing a sense of humor with your spouse yields a higher probability of relationship success.

When you are in the right relationship, you’ll know it. Not only do you get along and have fun with your spouse, but they make you feel great about yourself. You will have better mental health and feel more mental and physical vitality when supported by a loving partner.

4. Compatible Intimacy

Intimacy is an important part of maintaining a long-term relationship.

Research indicates that the more satisfied a couple is with their physical life together, the more intense their emotional intimacy was.

Physical intimacy is important, but so is emotional intimacy. This is what helps build up the marital friendship and strengthens a couple’s bond in the long-run.

Studies show that married couples experience less stress and greater happiness when they spend quality time together.

5. Communication Is Solid

Results of a Brazilian study showed that money, children, sex, and jealousy were the most common problems faced by couples. These problems, as well as issues communicating and committing, are what often leads to the dissolution of a relationship.

Yes, communication is positively correlated with relationship quality. It’s what helps couples get to know one another, develop a deeper bond, and solve problems before they snowball out of control.

A Marriage counsellor will teach you about boosting healthy communication through monthly marital check-ins and will stress the importance of empathy and listening skills. These qualities will help you and your spouse get the most out of your communication efforts.

6. Handling Conflict

Research shows that the perceived nature of the relationship is a big indicator of long-term relationship success. For example, viewing your marriage as sacred and having the opinion that “Nobody is as happy as we are!” can actually be great for your relationship.

One way you can stay happy with your spouse is by learning how to handle conflict. Listening is just as important as communicating when it comes to handling conflict with your partner.

It’s also important to approach problems as a partner, not enemies. Join together and tackle the problem, not each other.

In Conclusion

You’ll know you’ve found the right person if you can trust each other, and are able to communicate openly without fear of judgment or being misunderstood. Sharing values and having compatible intimacy are two crucial qualities in any successful long-term relationship.

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You can use the Law of Attraction to create the life you desire most. Attracting love is one of the most powerful ways to use the Law of Attraction. So if you’re seeking love, remember that embracing the right mindset is key.

Mindset Tips for Using the Law of Attraction for Love

The Law of Attraction is based on the idea that “like attracts like.” So, what thoughts are you concentrating on? If haven’t seen the results you hope for, it could be that your mindset is actually a bit off without even realizing it. It takes practice to steer your focus away from being single or alone or lonely, but with practice you’ll see noticeable results. These tips are great reminders of where to keep your mind focused.

“Our task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it”    ~ Jalal Ad-Din Rumi

1. LOVE YOURSELF

To be open to a healthy love, you must love yourself first. You can access a feeling of being loved at any time by learning to truly love yourself. THIS is where your mindset needs to be focused to attract a love partner. (Remember – “like attracts like”? When you feel loved simply by loving yourself, you are putting out a different energy or vibe – a higher vibration – than if you feel unloved or alone.)

2. OPEN YOUR HEART TO OTHERS – GIVE LOVE AND KINDNESS FREELY

Once you love yourself, open your heart to others. Love is limitless, and you can offer a spiritual kind of love to anyone and everyone in your life. Be loving and lovable, and you will be loved.

3. VISUALIZE YOUR IDEAL LOVE PARTNER

What does your ideal loving relationship look like? Be specific about the love partner you seek and visual him or her in your life. This doesn’t mean specific to the point of deciding what color hair he or she needs to have…just be specific about qualities and traits that you find valuable in a mate. When you can visualize being with your ideal mate, the universe will KNOW and then introduce people into your life who match your vision.

4. TRUST THAT HE OR SHE WILL APPEAR IN YOUR LIFE

The Law of Attraction works – even for those who don’t believe it. We are ALL attracting things and people and experiences into our lives every day based on our thoughts, feelings and beliefs. You are either attracting what you want, or what you don’t want – but either way you are always attracting and designing your life whether intentional or not. So TRUST that you will attract the love you want, and focus your thoughts, feelings, and energy around that belief.

5. FEEL GRATITUDE AND APPRECIATION

In trusting that the love you desire will appear in your life, be grateful in knowing your life is filled with love and that you are filled with a loving energy. This includes love for yourself and others. And feel gratitude for everything good that already exists in your life.  When you focus on what you are grateful for rather than what you lack. Your energy will attract more of the good and less of the “lack.” So appreciate the abundance of love and joy you already have in your life, and that mindset and energy will attract more of it.

Here is a wonderful inspirational video to remind you how powerful your energy is in creating the life you want, including attracting love:

In desiring a love partner, apply these tips boost your success using the Law of Attraction for love. Just remember that you are ALWAYS attracting, so practice adjusting your mindset and energy to attract what you desire most!

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Being in a loving connected relationship is something that adds tremendous value to our lives.  Yet, often, over time, our relationships with a significant other or life partner start to feel stale and less connected.  By putting these relationship tips into action, you’ll notice a deeper level of closeness with your partner.

While there are numerous ways to foster a deeper connection with your life partner, the relationship tips below will help at a foundational level.

These will act as an anchor for other habits and behaviors that may develop…so use these as your base.  These are simple to implement.  Yet, they nurture and fulfill some universal needs and desires that will truly enhance your connection.

Love Yourself First | Relationship Tips

A deeply connected and healthy love with someone else is only possible when you love yourself first.

If you tend to focus on your insecurities or things you don’t treasure about yourself, that energy (whether articulated or not) detrimentally affects your partner and therefore your relationship.

So focus on taking care of YOU – inside and out.

Love yourself first: Honor and nurture your body, mind, and spirit.

The idea is not to seek perfection, but to embrace and appreciate the qualities that are special about YOU.  And, to challenge yourself to improve the things you don’t like.  (If you’re unable to change something, own it – embrace it – and learn to love it as something unique to you.)

Be Present | Relationship Tips

Being truly present with your partner is one of the strongest foundations that fosters a healthy and satisfying long-term connection.  And it begins simply with intention.  An intention to be more mindful, more self-aware, and more present.

We all have distractions in our lives, so it’s imperative that, as often as possible, we set aside the distractions.  We connect with ourselves and our partner by removing distractions and offering our full attention.

When you decide that it’s more important to be there for someone else and be fully present in that very moment – one moment leads to the next, and the next.

When being present, you are less aware of swirling and racing thoughts and more aware of what’s going on inside.  You experience a heightened awareness of what you are feeling so that you can express yourself honestly.

The more often you are fully present in your relationship, the greater bond you and your partner will enjoy.

“When you love someone, the best thing you can offer is your presence. How can you love if you are not there?” ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Practice Deep Listening | Relationship Tips

This dovetails with the previous tip of being present.  Listening – TRULY listening – is a skill that takes practice, yet the rewards are eye-opening.

In today’s world, we have shorter attention spans.  We are inundated with information and stressful activities coming at us from all directions (smart phones, computers, televisions, traffic, work, etc.)

When your partner is talking to you, give him or her your full attention by really listening.

Indeed, listening deeply demonstrates respect to your partner.  When we feel “heard,” we feel valued.

A common habit is that when one person is talking, we “half listen” while thinking of what we want to say next.  Or worse, we interrupt.  Or, we’re distracted and not really listening at all.

So STOP.  Stop your thoughts from racing.  Open your mind.  And LISTEN.  Listen for longer than feels natural.   (This really takes some getting used to.)

When you practice and make a habit of deep listening, you’ll notice your partner being more willing to open up.  This is one of the simplest ways to deepen your connection.

Feeling “heard” is actually a rare and special gift you can give – just by focusing on how deeply you listen.

Respect, Appreciation, Trust, and Communication | Relationship Tips

Here, I’ve combined four areas that, along with the three over-arching ideas above, work together to strengthen your relationship connection.  While each of these tips could really be written about extensively on their own, here are some key points:

• Respect: Recognize that respect is an important key to healthy relationships.  That means respect in your communications (no name calling or degrading remarks); your body language (no eye rolling or looks of disgust about what your partner is communicating); and attitude.  It extends to little things, as well, that we don’t intend as being disrespectful at all.  So pay attention to the things you say and how they’re received.  In this way, you’ll learn “respect triggers” about your partner you may not have been aware of.

• Trust: Without trust, a deeply connected love cannot flourish.  Often, our insecurities are what lead us to mistrust our partners, and things tend to deteriorate from there.  Always offer the benefit of the doubt and trust your partner unless you have reason not to.  This relates beyond infidelity and speaks also to his or her capabilities, intentions, reasoning, and many ways that we don’t realize.  Realize that trust is another important key to a healthy relationship.  If you have trust issues between the two of you, seek ways to strengthen that aspect of your connection.

• Communication: Your words, body language, and your overall energy are communicating to your partner every time you connect.  Be mindful and aware of what you’re communicating to ensure it’s received with the love and authenticity you intend.  A common relationship habit is expecting the other person to “just know” what you’re feeling, want, or need.  Yet we’re not mind-readers, and men and women think and communicate differently.  Realistic expectations and honest communication are both helpful in strengthening your relationship connection.

• Appreciation: Appreciate your partner OFTEN.  Tell him or her how much you value things they do and say, what it means to you, and how it makes you feel.  The more things about your partner you recognize with sincere and thoughtful appreciation, the more things he or she will want to do for you.  There’s no down-side here!

Being intentional in our connections and aware of how we’re relating to our partner is the first step.  By implementing the relationship tips above, your relationship will become more firmly rooted, deeply connected, and will reach new heights at the same time.

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“Love gives nothing but itself, and takes nothing but from itself. Love does not possess, nor would it be possessed. And do not think that you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.” ― Khalil Gibran

In the modern world, love has become an addiction.

Indeed, when we fall in love our brains really do become addicted to our partner.

“Intense passionate love uses the same system in the brain that gets activated when a person is addicted to drugs,” a study at the State University of New York at Stony Brook recently revealed.

Love or possession.

So we know that when we fall in love we get addicted and attached to our partners.

So when or how does that addiction turn to possessiveness and attachment?

A lot of it has to do with fear.

If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.” — Osho

When we get attached to someone or something, a lot of the time our response becomes “how do I keep this person/thing from leaving me?”

Rather than giving love space and room to breathe, we cling to it, desperate to make the feeling stay.

This, of course, is counterproductive.

Love requires trust, spaciousness and faith. To love someone is to allow them to be who and where they are.

In modern relationships, we so often fall into the trap that the other person belongs to us. This simply can never be true.

All relationships are in a constant state of flow. To be successful, they require time, effort, patience and understanding.

For a relationship and the parties in it to flourish, love must be a practice of remembering that we do not own another.

We can only every grow and expand who we are as individuals, then from that place of fullness, tend to the love that we share with another.

To truly love means to allow your partner the freedom to be.

To release the fear that they will stop choosing you and move on to another, to relinquish control and simply focus on being the absolute BEST version of you.

Choose love over possession, when you do that, there is no need to cling to anybody or anything.

Because you finally know what it means to BE love, rather than simply being IN it.

 13 Love Quotes That Will Melt Your Heart  

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